Prince Hunny Bunny (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/15 | Reply
I've been thinking of moving far away too. I always thought I wanted to stay in my city, but the more the days go on, the more I'm getting tired of being here. My family is driving me insane and I rarely see my "friends." I don't know that I would ever have the courage of moving even another state away, but I'm contemplating moving to my boyfriend's town. It's about an hour away, and no one knows me there so I could start over and still keep in touch with family/friends. But I have a while to think on it, since I don't even have a job yet. @.@
But yeah, you're definitely not alone in that feeling.
That's probably what it is. I get this feeling whenever my life starts getting too routine-y. OR when there's something I need to face up to and figure out and I don't want to. I essentially want to run from my problems. But clearly that's not the best method. I'm just going to start weighing the pros and cons and seeing if it's something that would really benefit me.
I know that now would be the time, and a part of me really wants to do it. A lot. But if I leave, I won't be able to see my little brother grow up. He's barely a teenager, and we are incredibly close. It would so hard to be so far away from him. But it's definitely something I'm thinking about. I'm weighing the pros and cons.
Life is scary like that.
One minute you're itching to make movements, but when you finally get there its not all the treasure trove you wanted it to be.
Personally I think you might just be reliving that stagnant life you described earlier, and your old self is hating it currently. If I was in that situation, I'd wait a bit longer before I try to make another huge transition.
This is one of those "The grass is always greener" euphemism parts of life.
I think if you wanted to do something like that, now would be the best time. A lot of my friends are doing that (for nursing) and they're travelling the world and seeing things while they can, and don't have much to commit to at home (i.e. no house / marriage, etc.). It may seem a bit intimidating now, but if it's something you really want to experience, isn't it better to at least try it, even for a little bit? I'm sure you'll do great, in whatever you do! I'm rooting for you! :D
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/15 | Reply
@cheriblosomchibi:
I think moving there would be a great first step for you! I've done it once and never regretted it.
cheriblosomchibi
Prince Hunny Bunny (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/15 | Reply
I've been thinking of moving far away too. I always thought I wanted to stay in my city, but the more the days go on, the more I'm getting tired of being here. My family is driving me insane and I rarely see my "friends." I don't know that I would ever have the courage of moving even another state away, but I'm contemplating moving to my boyfriend's town. It's about an hour away, and no one knows me there so I could start over and still keep in touch with family/friends. But I have a while to think on it, since I don't even have a job yet. @.@
But yeah, you're definitely not alone in that feeling.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/15 | Reply
@Kazamas-Keyblade:
That's probably what it is. I get this feeling whenever my life starts getting too routine-y. OR when there's something I need to face up to and figure out and I don't want to. I essentially want to run from my problems. But clearly that's not the best method. I'm just going to start weighing the pros and cons and seeing if it's something that would really benefit me.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/15 | Reply
@ItachiSasuke:
I know that now would be the time, and a part of me really wants to do it. A lot. But if I leave, I won't be able to see my little brother grow up. He's barely a teenager, and we are incredibly close. It would so hard to be so far away from him. But it's definitely something I'm thinking about. I'm weighing the pros and cons.
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 05/05/15 | Reply
Life is scary like that.
One minute you're itching to make movements, but when you finally get there its not all the treasure trove you wanted it to be.
Personally I think you might just be reliving that stagnant life you described earlier, and your old self is hating it currently. If I was in that situation, I'd wait a bit longer before I try to make another huge transition.
This is one of those "The grass is always greener" euphemism parts of life.
ItachiSasuke
Administrator | Posted 05/05/15 | Reply
I think if you wanted to do something like that, now would be the best time. A lot of my friends are doing that (for nursing) and they're travelling the world and seeing things while they can, and don't have much to commit to at home (i.e. no house / marriage, etc.). It may seem a bit intimidating now, but if it's something you really want to experience, isn't it better to at least try it, even for a little bit? I'm sure you'll do great, in whatever you do! I'm rooting for you! :D
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