I guess I was just concerned because I was thinking about how they're going to be 70 in a few years - well okay, ten years. I don't know, I just got to thinking about it, and it worried me because I thought about how I don't know about a lot of stuff.
Maybe you're right though. Maybe I shouldn't worry.
Would you like me to send you a bunch of questions? You could answer them exactly as you would in a real interview, and I can tell you what you're doing right and what you need to work on? If you want.
As for the boys thing: The guy that you will love and who loves you back isn't going to care one way or the other about something like that. He'll teach you, and I doubt he'd have any problems with you practicing a lot. And any guy who is scared by it doesn't deserve you. As simple as that.
As for your parents: Unless they are in terrible health, I bet you have years to worry about either of them dying. And before that, you are gonna get a job, move out on your own, get your life to where you want to be, becoming stable enough where you being on your own without them won't be so scary. But, losing a parent, no matter if you're stable or not is something that is always a little scary and is going to be terrible. No way to get around that.
Well, actually, I don't do well at interviews. I'm never sure how to answer or if my answers are good enough. I'm not sure if it's my interview answers that are the problem or if they're just not interested. So far though, getting beyond retail isn't going too well.
lol and guys would think it's cute? I thought they'd be scared away. I'm trying not to think about boyfriends, but I recently got to thinking about it again because I thought about what would happen once my parents die. I mean, they're getting older, and I'm kind of ill prepared for life.
First of all: No one ever NEEDS a significant other to be happy. You can achieve that all on your own. That being said, I understand how nice it can be to have one. I just want to point out that inexperience doesn't mean anything. My boyfriend is 8 years older than me. More experienced in a lot of things. Hell, we grew up in two totally different generations! When we first met, I was naive, innocent, and completely clueless to any and all things to do with love. I had never been in love, and he had been engaged to a woman he had been with for 3 years. It was pretty daunting, and I felt silly and shy and embarrassed when we first hooked up. I mean, I knew NOTHING. But, he was patient and taught me, and he helped me along. That's what is going to happen with you. You're gonna find a guy who finds it cute, endearing, and special to be able to show you the way.
In regards to the job, you seem to be able to get to the interview process without a problem. How do you feel you're doing at the interviews?
shortcrazygirl
Otakuite+ | Posted 04/25/13 | Reply
@DemonsandAngels:
Good to know a man would want to help me.
And for the interview questions, sure why not! :)
I guess I was just concerned because I was thinking about how they're going to be 70 in a few years - well okay, ten years. I don't know, I just got to thinking about it, and it worried me because I thought about how I don't know about a lot of stuff.
Maybe you're right though. Maybe I shouldn't worry.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/25/13 | Reply
@shortcrazygirl:
Would you like me to send you a bunch of questions? You could answer them exactly as you would in a real interview, and I can tell you what you're doing right and what you need to work on? If you want.
As for the boys thing: The guy that you will love and who loves you back isn't going to care one way or the other about something like that. He'll teach you, and I doubt he'd have any problems with you practicing a lot. And any guy who is scared by it doesn't deserve you. As simple as that.
As for your parents: Unless they are in terrible health, I bet you have years to worry about either of them dying. And before that, you are gonna get a job, move out on your own, get your life to where you want to be, becoming stable enough where you being on your own without them won't be so scary. But, losing a parent, no matter if you're stable or not is something that is always a little scary and is going to be terrible. No way to get around that.
shortcrazygirl
Otakuite+ | Posted 04/25/13 | Reply
@DemonsandAngels:
Well, actually, I don't do well at interviews. I'm never sure how to answer or if my answers are good enough. I'm not sure if it's my interview answers that are the problem or if they're just not interested. So far though, getting beyond retail isn't going too well.
lol and guys would think it's cute? I thought they'd be scared away. I'm trying not to think about boyfriends, but I recently got to thinking about it again because I thought about what would happen once my parents die. I mean, they're getting older, and I'm kind of ill prepared for life.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/25/13 | Reply
First of all: No one ever NEEDS a significant other to be happy. You can achieve that all on your own. That being said, I understand how nice it can be to have one. I just want to point out that inexperience doesn't mean anything. My boyfriend is 8 years older than me. More experienced in a lot of things. Hell, we grew up in two totally different generations! When we first met, I was naive, innocent, and completely clueless to any and all things to do with love. I had never been in love, and he had been engaged to a woman he had been with for 3 years. It was pretty daunting, and I felt silly and shy and embarrassed when we first hooked up. I mean, I knew NOTHING. But, he was patient and taught me, and he helped me along. That's what is going to happen with you. You're gonna find a guy who finds it cute, endearing, and special to be able to show you the way.
In regards to the job, you seem to be able to get to the interview process without a problem. How do you feel you're doing at the interviews?