It's alright if you don't have all the answers, I don't expect anyone too, it just helps to know that people care enough about me to try and give me advice! 8D
Oh lord, on a completely random note, I have the hiccups D': They hurt..
Actually... I understand you COMPLETELY with the straight-as-a-board except for Chayce kinda thing. XD; Just don't ask me to explain why I understand so completely >>;
But...it's hard for me to really explain the situation...since my girlfriend is the only girl I've EVER been interested in romantically ^^" If not for her...I'm straight as a board. I love guys, lolol~
Lol, it's okay, Mari-poo<3
I don't expect everyone to be able to offer me advice in EVERY situation. I can't even do that xP This is the first relationship I've ever been in too...Well, REAL one I guess. I'm still a little confused. I mean...our feelings for one another aren't your typical ones, I don't think. I love her for who she is, rather than what she is. Does that make sense? lol. Sure, things would probably work out better if she was a boy...<< Lord knows I'm crazy about boys...but I dunno..I guess, if anything, I'm scared to be separated from her.
Thanks for offering me support x3 even if this isn't your 'strong point'. Psh, whatever, you hot and sexy mama, you! 8D
I've just got to think positive about the situation, I guess...there's no use in letting it drag me down, at least.
Lol, yeah, I really like her name xD
PS! I did that survey you had on your page last night xD
PSS! What does PSS stand for anyway? *cough* OH! um...uh..CRAP...NO WAIT, I remembered, I'm about to send you a friend request on Yahoo! Finally got the chance to get on! 8D
<3Becki
Last edited by PerfectParadox at 11:52:43 AM EST on December 24, 2008.
Well, I know how you feel. There's plenty of stuff that I've gone through that I haven't felt I was able to tell my parents -- but then again, your parents seem like they're a lot less close-minded and stuff than mine.
My suggestion would be to talk in through with Chayce and figure out a way to very very slowly and gently breach the topic with your parents, so it's not as obvious as to what you're doing at first. Maybe plant the idea in their brain somehow that you MIGHT be interested in women and see how they react before going ahead. Doesn't hurt to be cautious, right?
I wish you the best of luck, and I'm sure your parents will be fine with it. After all, they've loved you even with all the crazy mistakes you've made in the past, right? (I'm not saying being a lesbian/bi is a mistake at all o_o; Just that they might look at it similarly or something.)
PerfectParadox
Otaku Eternal | Posted 12/24/08 | Reply
@Kyrianne:
Lol, I think I can deduce how ya know x3
It's alright if you don't have all the answers, I don't expect anyone too, it just helps to know that people care enough about me to try and give me advice! 8D
Oh lord, on a completely random note, I have the hiccups D': They hurt..
Kyrianne
Otaku Eternal | Posted 12/24/08 | Reply
@PerfectParadox:
Actually... I understand you COMPLETELY with the straight-as-a-board except for Chayce kinda thing. XD; Just don't ask me to explain why I understand so completely >>;
Hmmm. Sorry, I don't have any other ideas. D;
PerfectParadox
Otaku Eternal | Posted 12/24/08 | Reply
@Kyrianne:
Yeah, I get what you're saying~ thanks! 83
But...it's hard for me to really explain the situation...since my girlfriend is the only girl I've EVER been interested in romantically ^^" If not for her...I'm straight as a board. I love guys, lolol~
It'll happen when it happens I guess : [
PerfectParadox
Otaku Eternal | Posted 12/24/08 | Reply
@:
Lol, it's okay, Mari-poo<3
I don't expect everyone to be able to offer me advice in EVERY situation. I can't even do that xP This is the first relationship I've ever been in too...Well, REAL one I guess. I'm still a little confused. I mean...our feelings for one another aren't your typical ones, I don't think. I love her for who she is, rather than what she is. Does that make sense? lol. Sure, things would probably work out better if she was a boy...<< Lord knows I'm crazy about boys...but I dunno..I guess, if anything, I'm scared to be separated from her.
Thanks for offering me support x3 even if this isn't your 'strong point'. Psh, whatever, you hot and sexy mama, you! 8D
I've just got to think positive about the situation, I guess...there's no use in letting it drag me down, at least.
Lol, yeah, I really like her name xD
PS! I did that survey you had on your page last night xD
PSS! What does PSS stand for anyway? *cough* OH! um...uh..CRAP...NO WAIT, I remembered, I'm about to send you a friend request on Yahoo! Finally got the chance to get on! 8D
<3Becki
Last edited by PerfectParadox at 11:52:43 AM EST on December 24, 2008.
Kyrianne
Otaku Eternal | Posted 12/22/08 | Reply
Well, I know how you feel. There's plenty of stuff that I've gone through that I haven't felt I was able to tell my parents -- but then again, your parents seem like they're a lot less close-minded and stuff than mine.
My suggestion would be to talk in through with Chayce and figure out a way to very very slowly and gently breach the topic with your parents, so it's not as obvious as to what you're doing at first. Maybe plant the idea in their brain somehow that you MIGHT be interested in women and see how they react before going ahead. Doesn't hurt to be cautious, right?
I wish you the best of luck, and I'm sure your parents will be fine with it. After all, they've loved you even with all the crazy mistakes you've made in the past, right? (I'm not saying being a lesbian/bi is a mistake at all o_o; Just that they might look at it similarly or something.)