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Today a girl got killed by her boyfriend because he found out she was a transgenders. So im here to talk about gays. Bi, lesbian, transgenders, ect. I want to ask why it is a big deal. If someone likes someone else why should it matter who. if u r str8 or gay does that mean you are any different. You are still the person you are. Like the gay marriage. Gays can die overseas in war but they can't marry the person they loved. If u don't want a gay marriage don't get one but don't stop someone's happiness. What do you all think? Should you be hated just because you are different and not "normal". I say no. you can't pick who you fall in love with and you can't pick what gender you are born as