These lyrics are from Frontline by Pillar
"We drive on and don't look back
It doesn't mean we can't learn from our past"
I wasn't thinking about making a post about regrets and moving forward and finally I read this post this morning and got motivated.
So, to agree with my fellow otaku, I too believe that there are only two ways you can live, staying put or moving forward. People are really afraid of change because of the fear of the unknown. But staying put can be as dangerous for them as moving into the new! Personally, I can't stay put. I try as much as I can to move forward, all the time. Of course it's not always working cause sometimes I find myself trapped in situations that I can't get out from. But that doesn't mean that I won't try to keep on moving!
I believe that everyone is afraid of change cause they never know if it will be for the best. They're afraid they might fail on something or do something wrong. But life is not about not falling down, is about being able to stand right back up!
Myself, I can't say that I'm not afraid. Change can be really challenging but I enjoy it, cause not changing would be disastrous for me. That's way I don't really question the decisions that got me to the point I am right now. No regrets, that's my motto! And I can proudly say that I don't have any! It's a powerful thing the force of will. I made myself this way. I decided a long time ago that I'd never regret anything and 6 years later...here I am, not regreting my past! It's kind of easy for me to live this way, cause after all these years I manage to know myself as good as I can, know where I stand and what I believe and I came to love myself even more(maybe too much at times) but that actually means that I also love all the things that made me...well, me! All the right and bad decisions I made. There are all mine and I embrace them both!
~V
