Lukaiel. 19. INFP and a Taurus.
Femboy/androgyne. He/Him.
A pale prince. Taken by the knight of my heart.
Eccentric and anxious. Empath. Healer.
Fantasy/erotica writer. Artist. The biggest history geek.
Self-proclaimed fashionista and self-taught makeup artist. Aspiring model.
Absolutely nerdy in any way possible. Lover of the dark and spooky but also the cute and adorable. ~

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I feel like it's been a long time since updating here, but it really hasn't been that long. Hm.

My life is an absolute rollercoaster. I guess I'll start with the fun things going on.

A couple of weeks ago, Jason and I went to the big mall in town. He bought me lots of stuff and then I stayed the night at his house. Which I hadn't done in a while because of anxiety, but it was really fun. We watched RuPaul's Drag Race, and The Breakfast Club. At the mall, he bought me some cute earrings, a lipbalm, new makeup brushes, and socks!! (i really love socks)

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On Thursday, Jason and I went to go celebrate our birthdays together with Emka. We hung out at her apartment, watched Sailor Moon, ate lots of junk food. It was great lol. Jason bought me a book, a collection of Edgar Allan Poe stories, and a cute little card with an Octopus (they're my favorite underwater animal cx) and Emily bought me some little magnetic bookmark clips that look like cupcakes and smell like chocolate xD omg.

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oh my boyfriend bought me Final Fantasy IX!! my favorite ff game aaaa

I've been getting outside more, which is always nice. I also really hurt my thighs not too long aho and am still recovering. I overworked them by doing a ton of squats and lunges. It was a satisfying pain, but it hurt to move. I couldn't do much for a couple of days. But having a booty was not worth that kind of pain LOL

And in some inappropriate news... >///< Last time I went to Jason's, we tried some things that really spiced it all up. I asked him to spank me hehe. I had to bite his pillow (LOL) in order to not make too much noise. Twas fun. Then he blindfolded me with a tie and laid me down on the bed. He spent at least an hour, just teasing me by touching me all over and kissing and leaving marks. Goddddd, it was amazing. Probably my favorite makeout session, ever.
We're also trying some non-sexual dynamics to our relationship. I now occasionally refer to him as Sir, or Mister. He really likes that, and so do I. And sometimes he gives me "tasks" to do during the day so he can reward me later. The tasks are usually things that are innocent and calming, like coloring in my coloring book or making a list of things we could do next time he comes over. :3

But yeah.

And there's been some more, not-so fun things.

I guess it started when I started feeling guilty for not having a job. My friend is opening a boutique in the mall my mom works at, so I thought of messaging her about it, but my anxiety got the better of me. Then it was just a downward spiral from there. :c

I had several panic attacks after that. About not having anything to live for besides my boyfriend, about not having any friends, and feeling constantly suicidal. I wanted nothing more than to die.

Then I got paranoid that I was dependant on my boyfriend, because he's really the only person I talk to anymore. And I almost ended our relationship, because I thought we would need space from eachother. But after I calmed down, we talked it out and realized that I only felt that way because I was upset, in general.

Jason's friends sent me some things to help motivate me to feel better, which was really nice. c:

So basically, I have decided to talk to my mom about starting therapy to deal with my depression and anxiety. I don't really know how to talk to her about it, but I hopefully can find a clinic that won't cost too much.

But, for now, I'm alright, feeling stable. I'm planning to just work on my own interests for the moment until I get better with dealing with people. Then I can learn how to make friends and talk to people and apply for jobs.

Anyway, that's all I've got to say. I'll ttyl.

-Lukaiel Leigh

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a pretty mess.

Hello everyone. :3

I guess I've been relatively busy lately? Well not really but? Busier than usual lol.

May is the month of lots of birthdays for me xD my boyfriend's birthday is on the 6th, mine was yesterday, and my dad's is on the 21st.

My boyfriend and I celebrated his birthday last weekend. We went to a pizza place and then watched Tarzan at home. It was my first time watching it ;A; what a cute movie. My mom and I ordered him a cookie cake, it was the most we could do at the time.

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A little while back my mom's family celebrated my birthday. They gave mw $50 ayyyy. Then this weekend (well he came over on Friday then went home in the early afternoon today) my boyfriend came over and we celebrated for me. :D We went out to dinner and watched more movies lol. He bought me a huge Disney princess coloring book, a little doodle pad, a framed photograph he took, and some crayons. I'm also going to get a portrait he painted of me later. nwn My mom didn't have the money to get me a cake or presents yet, but her boss made me a cookie cake and gave me flowers. But I'll probably get my gifts soon :3 It was a fun weekend.

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Jason and I didn't get eachother any major gifts yet because we're waiting until we have a little party together with Emka at the end of the month.
Then I went to my dad's today. He got me a super cute cake and a beanie baby x3 Its SO CUTE!!

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(that's my brother behind me being a derp)

Today has been kind of stressful for me, though. Maybe I'm just tired, or something. This morning, I woke up next to Jason and my mind was just. Really messing with me. I kept thinking "I'm not even attracted to him." And "Why would I want to spend my life with someone so much like me?", etc. It was like my mind was looking for things to be wrong with him. And I started to feel trapped in our relationship. I didn't understand why. I felt so mean. Eventually I just broke down crying and told him about it. He simply held me while we talked it out.
I was so lost. Like I've never been happier than I have been with Jason. He's so attractive, we have a great dynamic and he makes me feel safe. I'm so comfortable with him and he's everything I want in a partner. And things are great because we can see eachother more often now. It's summer break for him, and he has his own car and license. (My man drives~)
Jason told me he thinks it's because I've been in bad relationships in the past. That maybe I look for things to be wrong because I expect them to be wrong. I started thinking and I think maybe I just find it hard to accept that things are happy and healthy, and my anxiety is like "YES! THIS IS TOTALLY HAPPENING UNDER THE SURFACE!" Because that's happened before-- where things seem awesome but actually suck.
It just really sucks that the abusive people from my past are now out of my life, but the effects of their manipulation live on. They molded me into this person who thinks that he deserves to be abused, and expects the abuse, and normalizes it and it's so, so hard trying to unlearn those thoughts and learn how to be healthy.
I think that's a part of why I feel so isolated from everyone else sometimes. It feels like everyone knows how to be human and here I am, an alien. I get very... disassociative? (not sure if that's the right word) It genuinely feels like I'm a whole different species from everyone else sometimes.

The other thing that happened today was my brother and I got into an argument. Maybe it was my fault though. I always expect him to be the one I trust most within my family but sometimes I'm reminded that he is very, very different. I just am so sick of him making me feel bad for liking things that are deemed "childish." And he constantly calls me sheltered, invalidates my anxiety and laughs off my tries to lose weight. I dunno. We aren't really on speaking terms now but it'll be alright. Eventually.

I've been thinking about my future living situation lately, because my family is stressing me out. I actually am considering moving to my boyfriend's town after I get myself together in maybe a few years, if things don't get better here. Because as of right now, I really don't have any friends here anymore and I feel like getting away would be nice. Maybe I could start over, meet some new people and start something. Maybe schooling? Who knows. It's only an hour drive away so I won't be too far away. And it's not like I have to live there forever. I could move back, with my boyfriend living with me, one day. Since my city is bigger. But!! That's in the future, and right now I'm focused on getting a job.

And I feel the need to brag about my sex life so here we go. Jason is just. *////* so amazing. He left me covered in hickies and he's really learning and using what I like. He's been touching me all over, roughly and softly, using his breath and tongue and teeth which drives me crazy. And a little while back, we tried a new thing: spanking. o///o which was fun, but I'm too ticklish and he's too nice xD but maybe we'll try again. And last night, I gave him a handjob (which I rarely do for some reason) while listening to his heartbeat. Hahaha I was basically dead omg.
It really helps that we talk about things we like and such c:

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Well I think that's all that's happening right now. :3 Have a lovely weekend and week, everyone.

Also, thank you all for the sweet birthday wishes <3

-Prince Lukaiel Leigh

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(i also cut my hair and finally got it to be white. :3 i've decided that i'm probably going to go a different color in a while though.)

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Weird, weird things have been happening to me lately.

I guess that I'll be learning to drive soon, as well as working to get a job. My grandma is either going to teach me how to drive, or pay for me to take a class. It's really up to me on which I prefer. Probably my grandma teaching me. It'll save money and a lot of anxiety.

Speaking of anxiety, it's killing me. Making me feel like everyone hates me. Making my depression worse. Lots of bad feelings. But I'm working them out.
I'm having a lot of dread about my birthday coming up. I'll be 19. Meaning that I've been lazing around for an entire year.
Not to mention that I have a fear of getting older.

My health is? Weird. I'm not having my stomach problems anymore, I don't think. And I've been pretty disciplined with my diet. But something else is happening. I have a pretty bad cough, but that's it as far as cold symptoms. My stomach has been heaving. Not like nauseous, but like I've been punched in the stomach. And I'm having frequent dizzy spells, like I'm going to faint. I'm almost always unbalanced when I walk. I keep mixing up words and pronounciations, and having lots of migraines and other body aching. And here's the weirdest thing: I've been having a STRONG craving to eat my laundry soap. ?????
I need to see a doctor soon, to get on birth control.

Which brings up another topic. So today, I got this weird intuitive feeling of being pregnant. I could not shake this feeling. I don't know why I thought of it. Maybe because lots of my friends are pregnant and having children lately. But I just? Couldn't stop thinking about it and panicking. I was so convinced.
But literally, there is no chance of me being pregnant. My boyfriend is physically unable to get me pregnant, I am physically unable to get pregnant, and I'm a virgin. There is no way in hell.

Jason finally got me to stop feeling that way, but then I got really sad. Like I wanted to be pregnant... But I don't! I really don't want children, not now, nor in the future. I guess maybe I'm jealous of all my friends, having families and getting their lives together. Maybe I just wanted the option of getting pregnant. Who knows. The dumb thing is that I would never keep a child if I were pregnant. I would certainly have an abortion. Maybe I'd put them up for adoption but that's if I could even go through labor.

I really would like to be a housespouse. Maybe I'm too excited about that role. Except I just want to clean and cook and be motherly, not a parent.

Sometimes I worry about being so feminine and taking the feminine roles in life. Sometimes I refer to myself as "they" or "she." I doubt my gender identity a lot. But I don't feel that I'm a girl. I guess I don't see "she" as womanly anymore. But I definitely am uncomfortable with other people calling me a girl/"she". I don't know.  I just think I'm comfortable in my gender expression. I rarely bind my chest anymore. And I primarily look feminine these days. I know that I'm a boy. It's like I'm a boy, but also something else. Femboy fits really well, and so does androgynous boy. It's just something I'm insecure about but I think once I go shopping and stuff again, get more clothes, I'll feel better. I have conflicting emotions about physically transitioning. I know for sure that I want a double mastectomy. But being on testosterone is something I'm still pondering.

Oh, in other news, my cat Whisper gave birth. A day after my ferret Sunny passed away. He was old and lived a nice life, so I'm okay. But yeah, Whisper had kittens. She has three white ones, and one black one. We're thinking about keeping a white one. c:

I feel like I'm rambling, but my thoughts aren't really being properly conveyed through my words. I'll end this here.

Have a lovely weekend everyone. <3

-Prince Lulu

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a pirate's life for me

Hi hi. c:

So I'm currently writing this from my bed, trying to get comfy. I am so miserably sick. I feel dead.
I have a really bad chest cold, followed by what feels like a fever. I'm also a tad sunburnt, and on my period. Having the worst abdomen cramps ever. I'm just generally sore all over.

But I had a really fun weekend. It was renfaire weekend :D and I had Jason staying overnight with me.

The renfaire was a blast. We only went for one day, but I feel fulfilled lol. I dressed as a pirate, and we wandered around the faire, watching shows and looking at all the merchant items. We were really looking for lavender scented things, since it's known to help anxiety and headaches and such.

We watched a girl hooping, she was really cute. She taught little kids some tricks and I got her business card since she offers classes. I thought it may be something to look into. I also want to attend some bellydancing classes. The only problem is that I don't want to go to these things alone. >< argh.
We also watched the fire juggler/contortionist o: I watch his show every year, he's amazing.

I feel like my pirate outfit was decent considering I pulled it together very last minute. My leggings are black velvet, and the belt around my waist and my headband are strips I cut off an old torn velvet dress. :3

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I plan to upgrade it. Next faire, I have plans to be a fawn boy and a moonlight elf. We'll see how that goes.

While at the faire, Jason finally got to have a real conversation with my dad and brother. We all were just hanging out, laughing. It was a nice time. I'm so glad my family likes my boyfriend.

Jason and I bought stuff. He got an art book and a little dragon figurine. I got a really adorable candle, some gemstones, a little bottle of rose quartz, some lavender spritz and a bath bomb. Jason also bought me a cute little candle holder.

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I'm hoping to try crystal healing. It may help me feel better, mentally, if I get more in touch with my spirituality.

Jason and I went home and got some pizza and watched 22 Jump Street. Then made out. A lot. And stayed up until 3am. We planned to go to the renfaire the next day, but I wasn't feeling very well. So we just stayed home and cuddled and made out some more and watched stuff. It was really great.

(sexual warning)
I had been having such a low sex drive lately. It was really strange, considering I'm usually always up for it. I think it probably has something to do with my depression. But then Jason came over and it just took me over. I felt a craving for him the whole time. Luckily, he was feeling it too. He was so dominant, pinning my arms down and kissing me all over, leaving me hickies... Ah. It was so... so satisfying. I feel like he awakened a hunger in me. It's crazy. I'm feeling incredibly submissive.

Anyway, it was kind of stormy all weekend which was nice. Jason and I went out for a walk on Sunday but then it started raining heavily and hailing xD so we powerwalked back home. He let me borrow his hoodie. x3 It was a very sleepy, rainy, calm Sunday. Which was very lovely.

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He went home, and I've been feeling very low since then. It's like I'm having withdrawal. I just miss him so much already. There's like an aching in my being, as overdramatic as that sounds. I got so used to him being here and now I just feel so lonely.
As I said, I'm really sick and I've spent the day sleeping on and off and wishing my boyfriend could hold me. He always makes me feel better when I'm sick. I've been pathetic all day and probably will continue that.

I feel really whiny. I'm pretty whiny when I'm not sick, but when I am, I'm just downright pathetic.

I've been wanting to read, so a trip to the library may be in order soon. And hopefully that will keep me busy until I'm feeling better, so I can get working out again and start on my friend Wendy's commission.

Anyway, I'll end this here before I get too sappy. I hope everyone has a great week. c:

- The Bed-Ridden Prince

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(that sounds like RuPaul in my head lol)

I suppose I can say that I'm doing better. At least a little bit. I've still been having breakdowns and panic attacks and I'm still self-harming but these times are less frequent lately.

I'm still having health problems, and I have yet to do the labwork my doctor wants. I will do it... It's just not a very pleasant thing. -w-;
However, I got the results from my bloodwork a while back. I don't have celiac disease (extreme sensitivity to gluten), so that's good. My doctor did prescribe me more diabetic medication. At least it's not more of the same. xwx Metformin (the one i've been taking) makes me sick but if I take it before bed I'm usually okay. The new one, I take when I eat after I wake up. It's a smaller pill and so far I'm not having side effects. Yay!
She also said that I shouldn't take sleepaid anymore, and no more pain pills. D: So that's been hard because of insomnia and migraines. But I'm managing. I've been finding home remedies and such. And I just kind of stay up until 6am now lol. But I guess it's not really problem for now, since I don't have any obligations.

But hey. I've been eating A LOT healthier since figuring out my diabetes. And today I worked out for an hour. :D  I'm going to make it a daily thing. I also have been keeping hydrated, and now I've replaced soda and juice with tea and lemon water. I already feel a lot cleaner, which makes me happy.
I dunno if I ever really mentioned this before but I'm very sensitive about feeling clean. I get extremely upset if I miss a shower or anything.

That being said, I'm also cleaning like crazy as of late. Now if I could become a better cook, I'd be a lovely little housespouse lol.

I got to see my boyfriend a few days ago. nwn he got a new tattoo and was in my city. I met some of his friends and we went shopping and out to eat. Actually I didn't eat anything, nor buy anything lol. But my boyfriend bought me some knee-high socks and a little Beemo plush x3

I've been working on bettering my personality and mannerisms. Learning how to stop cursing so much and be more. Classy? I'm working on being more sophisticated I guess.

My friend Wendy commissioned me a watercolor painting :3 I'm waiting for my supplies to arrive (my boyfriend ordered them for me). So I should be getting $40 on Friday if I finish it by then.
Right in time for the renfaire this weekend. I basically have my costumes, it's just a matter of choosing which ones to wear. :3 Pretty excited for that.

I dunno what else to say, so I'll end this here.

Have a lovely week, everyone.

-Lukaiel Leigh.
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(oh yeah i also fiddled with my hair color more. i went through several shades of blond until i arrived at this one :3 i like it.)