In some regard,I'd agree...
I myself have had those moments.But on the other hand while someone might choose a partner based on their potential/personality,when it comes to planning a future with that person,a lot more need to be considered.For one thing,just a person's capability isn't enough if you are looking forward to spending a lifetime together.It might lead to an unstable life without a proper career aspect.
So,it's true that I find the standards quite deplorable but I could understand my partner's wish for me to get my career options sorted out in the next two years (yeah,that is the case).After all,you couldn't possibly expect someone to consider a future together without a job/career/bank balance/health insurance/..*continues into more irrelevant details*
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Guru's Chosen | Posted 07/20/10 | Reply
In some regard,I'd agree...
I myself have had those moments.But on the other hand while someone might choose a partner based on their potential/personality,when it comes to planning a future with that person,a lot more need to be considered.For one thing,just a person's capability isn't enough if you are looking forward to spending a lifetime together.It might lead to an unstable life without a proper career aspect.
So,it's true that I find the standards quite deplorable but I could understand my partner's wish for me to get my career options sorted out in the next two years (yeah,that is the case).After all,you couldn't possibly expect someone to consider a future together without a job/career/bank balance/health insurance/..*continues into more
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Dr. Mama Cat. (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/20/10 | Reply
Maybe it's just me and I'm being stupid. I don't know.
I'm more likely to say it's the others being stupid. Or in a case like this, blind since they've mistaken visual prosperity for true happiness.
Not that being rich or well connected doesn't mean you can't be happy. But it sure as hell doesn't guarantee it.
~Crystia