i'm sososososososossososososssososoos sorry that this is happening to ya sensei D:
don't go to drinking and smoking that won't help ya know try to clear out your mind and think of happy thoughts :3
or talk to someone about your problems like.... EXAMPLE me :D
or someone that your really close too in life and the ppl makeing fun of ya.... *grabs a stick* U BAD PPL UUUUUUUUUu *beats them with a stick* .....u didn't see a thing sensei.....
well u shouldnn't listen to them cuz they don't know anything about ya learning style everyone is different y can't ppl understand that DX
so don't even listen to them and ingore them and they will quit. :D
if they don't i will grab a stick and beat them for ya :D
(ok me being immature here but XD oh well)
and also i did care once when ppl did talk behind my back but now i don't care cuz one they don't know the real me *huggles* i would make a Iruka sensei day for ya *marks it in her planner* there we go now I SHALL DRAW SOMETHING FOR YA NOW :D
*hugs*
don't worry be happy :D
Whatever you do, do not let what other people say affect you at all. I know it is easier said than done, but you can´t allow them to overcome your thoughts and fill you with negativity. I am the same way as you. I am only a teenager but I do more than most kids I know and more than a lot of adults. I am the only one working in my whole family, I have to support 4 people, buy groceries, pay medical and it´s so stressful sometimes that I go whack and burn down. I can´t even go to school because I don´t even have time for it right now. The point of me telling you this is not because I want to compare whose life is worse or anything, but it´s for me to tell you that no matter how hard the road is, never give up and stay strong. I have never touched a cigarrete, done drugs or gotten drunk because of the way I am feeling. Tomorrow is another day and we will get through it. I know people may be talking bad about you now, but none of them could walk your shoes and know what it feels like. Be proud of your accomplishments. You are in school, you are a beautiful, very smart woman and I know you are stronger than this.
Like you and KitsyLove, I've had some really really hard times as well, and somehow I always get out of them. But all that could have been said to help you has already been said, I think, and unfortunately I do not have much to add to that except:
Believe in yourself! We all know you're a very strong and intelligent person, and nothing anyone says or does is ever going to change that. You are going to be a nurse, and a good one at that.
I'll give you a smile as well!
And a massive hug! *hugs & hands cookie*
I hope everything's gonna be OK for you soon, good luck with everything! Take care Iruka-sama!
~SG
Well,I think DaFeather has said all that needed to be said. I couldn't agree less with what DaFeather has said.
I've had a time that I just thought I couldn't even smile a little smile anymore, I didn't enjoy things at all, I lost all spirit for doing things and all. But somehow I got out of it, I don't know how exactly I got out, but I think it was, because I was somehow getting some really good friends around me that cheered me up.
And about those idiots that keeps talking behind your back; they're really just nothing more than cowards, as they don't say anything right in front of you. Wow,talking about someone while they think that person doesn't hear it, that's sooooo brave of them *sarcastic tone in my voice* Hm,I used to be good at school, except for ONE stupid subject I don't even like. Maths. Don't come to me for mathematical questions, I don't freaking get the logic at all. At first I cared about being bad in maths because yeah...I was like one of the greater students there and I felt like I HAD to do really good at maths too, but once I realised it was a waste of time, I stopped. I thought that doing my best just because others wanted me to be good in it, wasn't something for me at all, I mean, all people have things they are good in and things they are bad in. So, I stopped caring about what other people would think if I was bad at ONE stupid subject. But yeah, if people go talk about you behind your back, it sure will do some major damage to your self-confidence.
Well,as I said before, DaFeather has said the stuff what's important, so basicly I don't really know what to say more. But I'm a good listener, so if you need to get some frustration out, you can always talk to me if you'd like. Even when I kind of busy right now, I'll be happy to be there for you when you're in need of some positive company. ^^
I hope you'll feel better soon, and that you'll be able to enjoy the small things in life again. ^^
I just commented on myO. Um, it's so early here so what did I say.... I believe I suggested you go beat the crap out of a steak and eat it. Yes, something about venting through beating the meat. Well, I hope you see it. I'm in a bad state to type in.
You'll be a nurse. You'll be a nurse and the people too busy muttering behind your back aren't worth it. People just do that, I know, I live in California now.
I just fell asleep for two seconds so I'll get off now. You'll be okay. You want this, so you'll be fine.
I was really debating on where to comment...I wasn't for sure where...but I commented on your MyO...I think I will copy and paste what I commented there...here as well...
*huge massive hugs*
Ms. Iruka Sensei m'am, *hugs* You sound really frustrated and exhausted. First thing first though...try to take deep breaths and just calm down first. Are you calm yet? If that don't help...maybe screaming would letting all that frustration out...
Don't give in to the temptation...no matter how nice it sounds...there are better ways to overcome stress. Do something that you enjoy doing something that won't harm your body...Keeping your mind occupied with something you love doing helps not being able to dwell on negative thoughts or stressing out to a point of breaking and just snapping or giving in to the things that you fought so hard to stay away from...
I know you're strong young lady. You are very strong and I believe in you and have faith that you can get through this trying time. And I completely understand what you are going through. Though my situation isn't exactly like yours, but I still understand. If you need someone to talk to you can always pm me, email, message, whatever is best....that is if you want to. I love to make sure my friends are okay. And to see you down like this...I have to find a way to uplift your spirit.
During hardest of times...praying really helps.
Can you afford to miss a day of class and just...find somewhere to relax from it all...even if it was just for that day...I agree with you. You do need a day free of negativity, stress, and just...be able to love life and smile at the little things...to smile again...Whatever you do, don't give up! Continue to believe in yourself! Like your favorite student always say...."Believe it!" ^_^
And to the idiots that called you stupid...I know at times being called something negative over and over again...it really does gets to you...makes you start...second guessing yourself, but so what if chemistry isn't your strongest subject (not mines either) that doesn't make you stupid matter of fact...you are one of the most intelligent person I have ever met. You are very smart and strong and talented. Don't let those ignorant simpletons get to you. And if you're beginning to understand chemistry more and more that is all that matters is getting through this class. Show these people who Iruka Sensei is! ^_^ If you need to let them know you're not anything to toy around with.
But what works best is ignoring them and smiling. ^_______^ Letting your enemies know they haven't broke you...they haven't won...
There will always be people out there to live to bring others down...we have to learn...to be the better person and survive all obstacles life throw at us. There are times when we have or will hit the lowest point and we are tested to see how we can handle ourselves and climb out of the pit of darkness...
There is always hope...never give that up...never give up on yourself. And just continue striving and going...do the best you can. You have my support beyond 100%.
I always believe it will get better. I believe your days will get better sensei, maybe not right away like you want it to, but just think...being able to live through this and survive it...makes you even stronger.
I hope what I said made sense.
Wish you the best and so much more on college, life, and just living basically.
*huge GIGANTIC MASSIVE hug* We love you too sensei!
When all hope seems lost…look for it…don’t give up yet. See it through the end before deciding the outcome. There is also a possibility something good is bound to happen.
Live On and Don't Give Up On Your Dream.
-Caprisha *peace signs*
PS: Something Meagan (Innocent Heart) and I always say...STAY POSITIVE AND STRONG!
Double PS: You need a smile...So I'll give you one.
smexykazekage
Title: Senior Otaku | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
I commented on your MyO already. xDD
Please make sure to read the whole article at the link I showed u! I hope it helps! Don't give up; let's both do our best.
+Mari+
hackerblackrose
Title: Senior Otaku | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
*bear huggle*
i'm sososososososossososososssososoos sorry that this is happening to ya sensei D:
don't go to drinking and smoking that won't help ya know try to clear out your mind and think of happy thoughts :3
or talk to someone about your problems like.... EXAMPLE me :D
or someone that your really close too in life and the ppl makeing fun of ya.... *grabs a stick* U BAD PPL UUUUUUUUUu *beats them with a stick* .....u didn't see a thing sensei.....
well u shouldnn't listen to them cuz they don't know anything about ya learning style everyone is different y can't ppl understand that DX
so don't even listen to them and ingore them and they will quit. :D
if they don't i will grab a stick and beat them for ya :D
(ok me being immature here but XD oh well)
and also i did care once when ppl did talk behind my back but now i don't care cuz one they don't know the real me *huggles* i would make a Iruka sensei day for ya *marks it in her planner* there we go now I SHALL DRAW SOMETHING FOR YA NOW :D
*hugs*
don't worry be happy :D
much love
~Rose
xaos
Title: Senior Otaku | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
Just letting you know I commented ya on your myO post.
Teapot Domescam
Title: Senior Otaku | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
Whatever you do, do not let what other people say affect you at all. I know it is easier said than done, but you can´t allow them to overcome your thoughts and fill you with negativity. I am the same way as you. I am only a teenager but I do more than most kids I know and more than a lot of adults. I am the only one working in my whole family, I have to support 4 people, buy groceries, pay medical and it´s so stressful sometimes that I go whack and burn down. I can´t even go to school because I don´t even have time for it right now. The point of me telling you this is not because I want to compare whose life is worse or anything, but it´s for me to tell you that no matter how hard the road is, never give up and stay strong. I have never touched a cigarrete, done drugs or gotten drunk because of the way I am feeling. Tomorrow is another day and we will get through it. I know people may be talking bad about you now, but none of them could walk your shoes and know what it feels like. Be proud of your accomplishments. You are in school, you are a beautiful, very smart woman and I know you are stronger than this.
XOXO
Andrea sama
SaxGirl
Title: Senior Otaku | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
Like you and KitsyLove, I've had some really really hard times as well, and somehow I always get out of them. But all that could have been said to help you has already been said, I think, and unfortunately I do not have much to add to that except:
Believe in yourself! We all know you're a very strong and intelligent person, and nothing anyone says or does is ever going to change that. You are going to be a nurse, and a good one at that.
I'll give you a smile as well!
And a massive hug! *hugs & hands cookie*
I hope everything's gonna be OK for you soon, good luck with everything! Take care Iruka-sama!
~SG
KitsyLove
Title: Otaku Legend | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
Well,I think DaFeather has said all that needed to be said. I couldn't agree less with what DaFeather has said.
I've had a time that I just thought I couldn't even smile a little smile anymore, I didn't enjoy things at all, I lost all spirit for doing things and all. But somehow I got out of it, I don't know how exactly I got out, but I think it was, because I was somehow getting some really good friends around me that cheered me up.
And about those idiots that keeps talking behind your back; they're really just nothing more than cowards, as they don't say anything right in front of you. Wow,talking about someone while they think that person doesn't hear it, that's sooooo brave of them *sarcastic tone in my voice* Hm,I used to be good at school, except for ONE stupid subject I don't even like. Maths. Don't come to me for mathematical questions, I don't freaking get the logic at all. At first I cared about being bad in maths because yeah...I was like one of the greater students there and I felt like I HAD to do really good at maths too, but once I realised it was a waste of time, I stopped. I thought that doing my best just because others wanted me to be good in it, wasn't something for me at all, I mean, all people have things they are good in and things they are bad in. So, I stopped caring about what other people would think if I was bad at ONE stupid subject. But yeah, if people go talk about you behind your back, it sure will do some major damage to your self-confidence.
Well,as I said before, DaFeather has said the stuff what's important, so basicly I don't really know what to say more. But I'm a good listener, so if you need to get some frustration out, you can always talk to me if you'd like. Even when I kind of busy right now, I'll be happy to be there for you when you're in need of some positive company. ^^
I hope you'll feel better soon, and that you'll be able to enjoy the small things in life again. ^^
~Kitsy~
The Eighth Sin
Title: Otaku Legend | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
I just commented on myO. Um, it's so early here so what did I say.... I believe I suggested you go beat the crap out of a steak and eat it. Yes, something about venting through beating the meat. Well, I hope you see it. I'm in a bad state to type in.
You'll be a nurse. You'll be a nurse and the people too busy muttering behind your back aren't worth it. People just do that, I know, I live in California now.
I just fell asleep for two seconds so I'll get off now. You'll be okay. You want this, so you'll be fine.
Sinny
DaFeather
Title: Senior Otaku | Posted 09/23/08 | Reply
I was really debating on where to comment...I wasn't for sure where...but I commented on your MyO...I think I will copy and paste what I commented there...here as well...
*huge massive hugs*
Ms. Iruka Sensei m'am, *hugs* You sound really frustrated and exhausted. First thing first though...try to take deep breaths and just calm down first. Are you calm yet? If that don't help...maybe screaming would letting all that frustration out...
Don't give in to the temptation...no matter how nice it sounds...there are better ways to overcome stress. Do something that you enjoy doing something that won't harm your body...Keeping your mind occupied with something you love doing helps not being able to dwell on negative thoughts or stressing out to a point of breaking and just snapping or giving in to the things that you fought so hard to stay away from...
I know you're strong young lady. You are very strong and I believe in you and have faith that you can get through this trying time. And I completely understand what you are going through. Though my situation isn't exactly like yours, but I still understand. If you need someone to talk to you can always pm me, email, message, whatever is best....that is if you want to. I love to make sure my friends are okay. And to see you down like this...I have to find a way to uplift your spirit.
During hardest of times...praying really helps.
Can you afford to miss a day of class and just...find somewhere to relax from it all...even if it was just for that day...I agree with you. You do need a day free of negativity, stress, and just...be able to love life and smile at the little things...to smile again...Whatever you do, don't give up! Continue to believe in yourself! Like your favorite student always say...."Believe it!" ^_^
And to the idiots that called you stupid...I know at times being called something negative over and over again...it really does gets to you...makes you start...second guessing yourself, but so what if chemistry isn't your strongest subject (not mines either) that doesn't make you stupid matter of fact...you are one of the most intelligent person I have ever met. You are very smart and strong and talented. Don't let those ignorant simpletons get to you. And if you're beginning to understand chemistry more and more that is all that matters is getting through this class. Show these people who Iruka Sensei is! ^_^ If you need to let them know you're not anything to toy around with.
But what works best is ignoring them and smiling. ^_______^ Letting your enemies know they haven't broke you...they haven't won...
There will always be people out there to live to bring others down...we have to learn...to be the better person and survive all obstacles life throw at us. There are times when we have or will hit the lowest point and we are tested to see how we can handle ourselves and climb out of the pit of darkness...
There is always hope...never give that up...never give up on yourself. And just continue striving and going...do the best you can. You have my support beyond 100%.
I always believe it will get better. I believe your days will get better sensei, maybe not right away like you want it to, but just think...being able to live through this and survive it...makes you even stronger.
I hope what I said made sense.
Wish you the best and so much more on college, life, and just living basically.
*huge GIGANTIC MASSIVE hug* We love you too sensei!
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When all hope seems lost…look for it…don’t give up yet. See it through the end before deciding the outcome. There is also a possibility something good is bound to happen.
Live On and Don't Give Up On Your Dream.
-Caprisha *peace signs*
PS: Something Meagan (Innocent Heart) and I always say...STAY POSITIVE AND STRONG!
Double PS: You need a smile...So I'll give you one.
^____________________________^