Wow, it's pretty sad when those who know nothing of the story or the situation at hand need to put their opinion in. Considering Alice, we've been friends for many years I find it rather funny that even one such as myself keeps my nose clean of your issues with your ex. You know I will always have your back no matter what and expect no reason as to why you would ever ask me to back you up. It's pretty damn petty that there are people there who act as if they majored in psychology and know just how bad one's mental stability is even though they themselves know not who that person truly is. Coming from someone with suicidal depression and high anxiety I find it rather disrespectful that people think that they know how to fix a mental disorder that they do not understand themselves, and before anyone gets butthurt over this allow me to explain. First off depression differs from person to person. Second off there is no real cure for it, only ways to manage it and that too differs from person to person. The old saying "The light at the end if the tunnel" crap is just a firefly that will soon die off. You will always be fighting your demons and it's a battle only you can fight. Call me an asshole or a prick because to be quite honest IDGAF. Forcing someone who isn't happy with a previous relationship isn't healthy to either party and shame on those who do that bullshit!
you really aren't getting this. THIS IS NOT YOUR MARRAIGE!!!!!! THIS IS NOT YOUR LOVE LIFE!!!! Are you that ignorant to realize how unstable he and I are?! You're not brash, you're ignorant and truly aren't listening, you're sticking your nose in stuff that it doesn't belong. Your name may be cupid, but you are not. If you were you would know that love is not to be interfered with, the beginning or end of it. Now keep your two cents in a piggy bank because neither he nor I want them. You're disrespectful since you obviously can't get that NO MEANS NO. We are not mindless drones, we are not like you and you're husband we are not going to be like you and you're husband. You want us together so bad, but guess what!! We're people!!! Not an OTP!! Shit gets one sided! Talking doesn't solve anything when it's the wrong time! If you can't understand that, get the fuck out of my subscriptions and stay out of our worlds! If there's anything Shayde and I have in common right now, it's our dislike of a disrespectful, ignorant, wannabe cupid like you! STAY OUT OF IT! You're not wanted! This is between us and our blogs! You're just stirring the pot, you obviously want to create more drama. You need to focus on your husband instead of a stranger's break up. It's petty on your part. My friends stay out of it, because they respect me and Shayde, obviously you're not a friend, just an ass wasting mine and Shayde's time!
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Then why not listen to him? That seems to be all he wants from you right now. I have been listening to him through his posts and ultimately he's being very depressing. There was a lot said in his previous post, stuff that he kept away from the rest of the world. If anything it sounds like he needs you. I get that you two are going through quite a big ordeal but don't you think you should at least talk to him? Even if it's just a word or two? If you're going to look out for him on the side, that's probably the best you can do for him right now. I understand you're mad at him, after what you told me, that seems like a logical reason but he really needs to hear from you still and I can tell that you still want to be by his side whether it's through a relationship or not. I don't care if you get mad at me over this comment, but I feel letting him just sit there wondering what the hell youre doing isn't helping his psych. He read that post without even knowing what the hells been going on. He didn't know there were people bothering you about this and you went after him. This is the least you could do, don't you think? I'm sorry if I'm sounding too brash but still.
Seriously, you need to leave Shayde alone. In my most recent post I stated that we post this shit in our worlds. These worlds are meant for people to vent. I'm not trying to upset you. But I know that he's feeling attacked by you, so please stop. I'm sorry about what he said to you, I know it stings but you really don't know what's going on with him. We're not going to talk for a long time right now. That's how it is, more so I don't further hurt him. All he needs is people to just listen. You want to be supportive, fine, but saying it will get better isn't what to say. Saying more "hey you wanna talk feel free to vent to me". I'm sorry he snapped at you, but he wasn't wrong. So please, don't bombard him.
LuciaV
Otakuite | Posted 11/03/16 | Reply
Wow, it's pretty sad when those who know nothing of the story or the situation at hand need to put their opinion in. Considering Alice, we've been friends for many years I find it rather funny that even one such as myself keeps my nose clean of your issues with your ex. You know I will always have your back no matter what and expect no reason as to why you would ever ask me to back you up. It's pretty damn petty that there are people there who act as if they majored in psychology and know just how bad one's mental stability is even though they themselves know not who that person truly is. Coming from someone with suicidal depression and high anxiety I find it rather disrespectful that people think that they know how to fix a mental disorder that they do not understand themselves, and before anyone gets butthurt over this allow me to explain. First off depression differs from person to person. Second off there is no real cure for it, only ways to manage it and that too differs from person to person. The old saying "The light at the end if the tunnel" crap is just a firefly that will soon die off. You will always be fighting your demons and it's a battle only you can fight. Call me an asshole or a prick because to be quite honest IDGAF. Forcing someone who isn't happy with a previous relationship isn't healthy to either party and shame on those who do that bullshit!
teapartyprincess
Lovely Lunatic (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/03/16 | Reply
@CupcakeCupid:
you really aren't getting this. THIS IS NOT YOUR MARRAIGE!!!!!! THIS IS NOT YOUR LOVE LIFE!!!! Are you that ignorant to realize how unstable he and I are?! You're not brash, you're ignorant and truly aren't listening, you're sticking your nose in stuff that it doesn't belong. Your name may be cupid, but you are not. If you were you would know that love is not to be interfered with, the beginning or end of it. Now keep your two cents in a piggy bank because neither he nor I want them. You're disrespectful since you obviously can't get that NO MEANS NO. We are not mindless drones, we are not like you and you're husband we are not going to be like you and you're husband. You want us together so bad, but guess what!! We're people!!! Not an OTP!! Shit gets one sided! Talking doesn't solve anything when it's the wrong time! If you can't understand that, get the fuck out of my subscriptions and stay out of our worlds! If there's anything Shayde and I have in common right now, it's our dislike of a disrespectful, ignorant, wannabe cupid like you! STAY OUT OF IT! You're not wanted! This is between us and our blogs! You're just stirring the pot, you obviously want to create more drama. You need to focus on your husband instead of a stranger's break up. It's petty on your part. My friends stay out of it, because they respect me and Shayde, obviously you're not a friend, just an ass wasting mine and Shayde's time!
Last edited by teapartyprincess at 2:58:36 AM EDT on November 3, 2016.
CupcakeCupid
Otakuite | Posted 11/03/16 | Reply
@teapartyprincess:
Then why not listen to him? That seems to be all he wants from you right now. I have been listening to him through his posts and ultimately he's being very depressing. There was a lot said in his previous post, stuff that he kept away from the rest of the world. If anything it sounds like he needs you. I get that you two are going through quite a big ordeal but don't you think you should at least talk to him? Even if it's just a word or two? If you're going to look out for him on the side, that's probably the best you can do for him right now. I understand you're mad at him, after what you told me, that seems like a logical reason but he really needs to hear from you still and I can tell that you still want to be by his side whether it's through a relationship or not. I don't care if you get mad at me over this comment, but I feel letting him just sit there wondering what the hell youre doing isn't helping his psych. He read that post without even knowing what the hells been going on. He didn't know there were people bothering you about this and you went after him. This is the least you could do, don't you think? I'm sorry if I'm sounding too brash but still.
teapartyprincess
Lovely Lunatic (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/03/16 | Reply
@DarlingV:
Thank you, I do believe in forgiveness and I don't like to make people feel bad when they've had good intentions.
teapartyprincess
Lovely Lunatic (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/03/16 | Reply
@CupcakeCupid:
Seriously, you need to leave Shayde alone. In my most recent post I stated that we post this shit in our worlds. These worlds are meant for people to vent. I'm not trying to upset you. But I know that he's feeling attacked by you, so please stop. I'm sorry about what he said to you, I know it stings but you really don't know what's going on with him. We're not going to talk for a long time right now. That's how it is, more so I don't further hurt him. All he needs is people to just listen. You want to be supportive, fine, but saying it will get better isn't what to say. Saying more "hey you wanna talk feel free to vent to me". I'm sorry he snapped at you, but he wasn't wrong. So please, don't bombard him.
DarlingV
Otakuite++ | Posted 11/02/16 | Reply
I'm sorry if I made you angry, but I'm happy you didn't block me and promise I will never harass you over him or anything you dislike again.
teapartyprincess
Lovely Lunatic (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/02/16 | Reply
@CupcakeCupid:
?? I made it clear to you I was uncomfortable, im talking about anyone that's done it and is thinking about doing it.
CupcakeCupid
Otakuite | Posted 11/01/16 | Reply
.___. I'm sorry if I had upset you that badly.